Wednesday, February 7, 2018

THE IMPORTANCE OF LOVING OURSELVES


It is a beautiful Winter day. The Sun is shining bright and it is 12.9 F. It was below zero again when I got, up almost -7, it will be nice when our temperatures return to normal. The normal high for today is 27 and the low is 10. Those figures represent an area somewhat South of here, but our normal should be within a few degrees.

I have been feeling a little blah lately. A vague feeling that things were not right. It was like waiting for the other shoe to drop. I thought it might be the weather. I thought it might be the crazy world. I thought it could be because a friend of ours died who was my age [a year and a half younger]. I have been conscious of my mortality lately.

However yesterday when I was doing one of my mini-meditations, I was aware that I was not getting to that peaceful place. I was aware that I was judging myself. I was finding myself unworthy. In a few minutes I realized why. I was judging myself for some jerky behavior. I won't go into it now. It was just garden variety domestic nuttiness.

Again I was reminded of how powerful love is and how we struggle when we deprive ourselves of it. Self judgement blocks the love we feel for ourselves. When we don't love ourselves we cannot fully love others. We attract negative thoughts about ourselves and project them on those around us. We are doing a disservice to ourselves and the whole world when we don't love ourselves.

When I realized what I was doing and that the Universe did not judge me, I was able to let the light in. I, again, found myself bathed in the light of the Universe. When I say the Universe I mean 'all that is'. The totality that is Love. What ever word you have for it; God, Allah, The Great Spirit, are some words that might work. There are many more. Man's concept of the Universe and his attending religions have loaded the words for God with both negative and positives. I am comfortable with just using the word God but many of my readers might not be.

In any case this experience reinforced the important notion that we must love ourselves. When we realize we are a little off, we need to pay attention to how we are feeling about ourselves. If we need to forgive ourselves, we can. We don't have to be perfect to love ourselves. That is what forgiveness is for!

Everything that is wrong with the world starts with our not loving ourselves. If we loved ourselves we would demand a peaceful world. We would expect to be treated with dignity. If we loved ourselves we would readily forgive ourselves our quirks and errors and forgive them in all we meet. The more we hold ourselves in esteem the more we do our neighbor.

If we loved ourselves we would not allow people to divide us up into camps that alienate and judge each other. The light of the world is increasing. It is bringing us together. The thing we need to resist is the division and isolation caused my judgement. Those attempting to cause chaos and division cannot win. The collective mind of humanity has chosen love. We are coming together.

Each and everyone of us can help by choosing to love ourselves. We need to treat ourselves with respect, then we will respect all others. We are like lights that are turning on. We are waking up the world one person at a time. We are shining brighter and brighter.

When we are getting our picture of the world from the main stream media we only see what those who are attempting to hold on to power want us to see. The world is really quite different. Check it out with your neighbors and friends. We have opted for Peace. Let the Love shine in. Love, Joy and Peace is ours for the asking.

Love and Peace, Gregg

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